Here's what usually happens. On the upwind leg, we're usually neck and neck around the first mark. He does better on the stbd tack on his Hobie 16, and I do better on the port tack on my Dart 18 (we race the two classes together, as our fleet is only 12 boats)!
On the run, he hauls a$$. I've tried running - the shortest route. I've tried a broad reach - the fastest and funnest route. I've tried kissing the wind (a mixture of both - speeding up on a reach, heading downwind to surf when I have some speed). It's not working.
Please, have you got tips for me???

Kate