Posted: Nov 01, 2016 - 12:52 AM
Although there are some modern boomless mains that can be flattened with proper downhaul and a bendy mast, the increased draft that you're experiencing in bigger air, is common with older dacron boomless mains. Adding a boom will help if you want to stay with your current main.
A new main out of newer laminate sailcloth would hold its shape better in a blow than an older dacron one. But that's some serious change, worth it if you have it.
I'm a big fan of using a smaller main for high wind conditions, less heeling moment, and a lot less drag than an overpowered, sheeted out mainsail. But you'd need a boom for that as well, as the foot is likely to be shorter than your current main.
Getting something figured out for your boat will increase your hig wind enjoyment significantly, it'll be worth the effort/investment. Practice your righting skills.