have 1 person on the tramp lifting
and tie a line to the forestay and have 1 person pulling sed line
when stepped - person on tramp holds it while person up front secures the forestay
alternatively have 2 people on the tramp stepping the mast
then once stepped - one person hop off and secure the forestay
also around here most of us turn our cats around and trailer sterns facing the car
this allows us to pin the mast to the ball and the trailer yoke holds the mast at an angle - easier to get under for lifting