Professional aircraft pilots get trained in "CRM" / Crew Resource Management, three-letter-acronym for good communication, sharing of jobs, establishing trust, etc.
Mine is all done with 1 of 4 gestures and hand motions
1. (and most often used) point at open mouth = please grab the rum from my cooler
2. glare at them with a scowl = you did it wrong
3. apply the middle finger = you did it wrong AGAIN
4. forcefully push them overboard = i'm done with you doing it wrong(or you were too slow with the rum)
Part 1 "Pull-cleat-uncleat-ignore-throw-give me-shoot..." the
Part 2 "f-ing-thingy-deal-gizmo-gorram-donkey butt"
Part 3 "Now-harder-faster"
Part 4 "And move back!"
-- Sheet In!
Bob
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Prindle 18-2 #244 "Wakizashi"
Prindle 16 #3690 "Pegasus" Sold (sigh)
AZ Multihull Fleet 42 member
(Way) Past Commodore of Prindle Fleet 14
Arizona, USA --
I have found using this disclaimer does not help when you bring a non-sailing person on board (i.e. a date)
they don't seem to understand "Loud" = important, not mad
i had a girlfriend on the boat and I got a little loud when she did something very wrong (i can't recall what it was, but i assume it was failing to give me rum when it was 100% NEEDED) but i got a little loud and she started to cry. the day didn't go well...
I agree. It's bad enough giving them a jib sheet to sit on, let alone the spin sheet. I had a sailing date and the girl shows up with her rat dog. Everything was fine until I got distracted during a jibe and capsized hard catapulting the rat into the jib on the way over.
Funny stuff. I once was going to take a girl out in a little Sea Snark at the beach. We started out, she was sitting in the boat Indian style looking all fine and whatnot, I went to turn the boat to break through some small waves when the wooden rudder snapped in two!!! I freaked out, we got back to shore and I told her we couldn't sail that day. She stormed off and I never saw her again. Lol.
-- Marty
1984 Hobie 16 Redline Yellow Nationals, "Yellow Fever"
Opelika, Al / Lake Martin --